Unique

the other day i was talking to someone and she said something to me that really got me. after that I started thinking bout it and I came up with this weird idea.

What is to belong, to be part of something,?

Most people try hard as fuck not to be common , to be different,  To Be UNIQUE, but most of them make a big mistake, they always try to be part or at least be identified with a group, and obviously, once you do that you are not unique because you are adopting manners, and other things from that group.

 What really strikes me are the reasons why we try to be unique or why we try to be part of a group. I think society has big role in this. We are every day in front of a computer or TV screen with images telling us what to buy, how to act in certain situations, what to do if you want to be successful in life and a bunch of other things and when people are weak, they fall for it.

On the other hand when you are against it you become part of that other group who see themselves as unique human beings, ( and they aren't cuz there a bunch of guys and girls doing the same thing while trying not  to be common).

Is it that bad to be similar to someone else, to be common? or is just a way of dissaproving the current system which makes us feel like bricks inna wall. replaceable objects without minds.